Memorial Day: A time for quiet contemplation

Memorial Day is different from other holidays, though it seems many of us have forgotten the point of the celebration. I ran into this issue back when I was a print reporter the day my editor asked me to write a story about the holiday.

“Go find out about all the fun events people can attend,” he said. “Parties, big sales, parades. Things like that.”

I frowned, which caught him off guard. “What?” He held his hands palms up.

I had never refused an assignment before, still I couldn’t help myself. “Memorial Day isn’t about shopping and drinking beer. It’s about remembering those you died while serving.”

He looked at me for a moment. “Write whatever you want.”

So, I contacted the local Veterans of Foreign Wars post and interviewed a number of aging veterans, men who despite their advanced years, recalled vividly those who were left behind. 

“I was a foot soldier in the 59th Field Hospital. My brother was in the 7th Armored Division. He chased me and I chased him, but he was killed before I got to him.”

“A buddy of mine…we went all the way through the war right to the end. Just outside of Cheb, Czechoslovakia he got captured and they stuck a pistol in his mouth and pulled the trigger. He was…22.”

“The pilot of the helicopter was going to lower me down into the water and I leaned out and took a look. Here was these huge fishes going around eating pieces of bodies. Sharks. And you know they couldn’t declare that person dead because they didn’t know if it was one person or two. I thought about it ever since.”

“I was standing watch at night. There were dead pilots lined up on the deck waiting to be buried at sea. They were covered except for their feet, which rocked back and forth as the ship swayed in the waves.”

Though Memorial Day is technically a time to remember those who have fallen during war, many of us also reflect on other former service men and women who are no longer with us. I have over the years spent the day thinking about my father who faced kamikazes and rode a destroyer escort into Tokyo Bay at the end of World War II. My dear friend Don Clarkson, a decorated hero of the Vietnam War who spent the rest of his life struggling with the demons he brought home. And Sargent Bud Richardville who served in the Graves Registration Service during World War II where his job was to locate, identify and bury the dead.

Note that I’m not saying you shouldn’t enjoy a cold beer and burger with friends on Memorial Day, but perhaps in the middle of whatever reverie you choose, you could stop and think about those who died to give you that opportunity.

Inspired by a true story

Bud Richardville is inducted into the Army as the United States prepares for the invasion of Europe in 1943. A chance comment has Bud assigned to a Graves Registration Company, where his unit is tasked with locating, identifying, and burying the dead. Bud ships out, leaving behind his new wife, Lorraine, a mysterious woman who has stolen his heart but whose secretive nature and shadowy past leave many unanswered questions. When Bud and his men hit the beach at Normandy, they are immediately thrust into the horrors of what working in a graves unit entails. Bud is beaten down by the gruesome demands of his job and losses in his personal life, but then he meets Eva, an optimistic soul who despite the war can see a positive future. Will Eva’s love be enough to save him?

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Praise for Your Forgotten Sons

“What a brilliant book! I couldn’t put this novel down…It is a solid five-star read. An unputdownable accounting of innocence, greed, the horrors of war, and the selfishness and criminal behaviors of some who seek to profit off the misfortunes of others. Your Forgotten Sons should be a must-read for all lovers of fiction, especially WWII fiction. The tale was educational, provocative, enlightening, and so well done. I hope Anne Montgomery writes another tale such as this. Her books have found a place on my bookshelves.” – Virginia Dill  Book Sirens

“Spectacular! One of the most personal books about WWII history that I’ve ever read…The characters in this book are so well crafted that the reader feels like they know them…My only regret is that it ended.” 5 Stars – Deacon Tom F, former USAF Lt Col., Amazon

“Although a defty crafted work of original fiction, “Your Forgotten Sons” by Anne Montgomery is inspired by a true story. An original and inherently interesting read from start to finish, “Your Forgotten Sons” will prove to be an immediate and enduringly appreciated pick.”  –  Midwest Book Review

“Your Forgotten Sons” by Anne Montgomery is a historical fiction novel that intricately explores the emotional turmoil of war, immersing readers in its richly crafted world and leaving a lasting impact with its nuanced characters and poignant storytelling.” – Chrysalis Brew Project

“This was a quick, riveting read that really challenged me to think differently about our servicemen and women, especially those who take on the jobs that don’t get heroically depicted in the media or news…I really highly recommend this book to anyone that is looking for a different take on American history. I left it with a newfound appreciation for the unsung heroes.”  –  Bekah C NetGalley 

“The story of Bud is tragic and evokes strong emotions, a sense of having lost a buddy in arms, a brother you knew and loved…The conclusion may not be what the reader expects, however, and the reveal is shocking. War is hell. 5 stars.”  – Virginia Williams Rosepoint Publishing

“Certainly Montgomery’s best book yet. Should be required reading for West Point Cadets and ROTC students, but more importantly mandatory reading for those of us that are casual observers of conflict. The book shifted my paradigm about the personal cost of war, and especially what it takes to clean up after a battle. Montgomery continues to be an outstanding story teller!” – Bill Clarkson Goodreads Reviewer

“This is the truth. It’s gritty and painful and bittersweet – and true.  When you think you’ve read every perspective of WWII, along comes Bud to break your heart.”  – Bridgett Siter Former Military Reporter

“Anne Montgomery writes a strong story and I was hooked from the first page. It had a great concept and I enjoyed that this was inspired by a true story…It was written perfectly and I was invested in the story. Anne Montgomery has a great writing style and left me wanting to read more.” –  Kathryn McLeer NetGalley 

Mental health and the military: Isn’t it time we did better?

Sixty to 70% of military personnel do not seek mental health assistance when they need it, concerned perhaps that the knowledge will destroy their careers.

In my new novel Your Forgotten Sons, a work of historical fiction which is inspired by a true story, World War II soldiers in the Graves Registration Service are relentlessly bombarded with the horrors of war, as their job entails retrieving, identifying, and burying the dead, a breeding ground for psychological damage. No doubt, many came home with deep invisible wounds that no one acknowledged as real. And that attitude about mental illness continued until recently.

Today, with the help of many well-known individuals, the stigma has lifted, especially with athletes like Simon Biles and Michael Phelps, and artists like Lady Gaga and Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson having come forward with their own mental health issues.

Now mental health is an everyday conversation in America. Unless, of course, one is in the military. A scene in the 1970 movie Patton still resonates. Actor George C. Scott—who won an Academy Award for playing the title character—slaps a hospitalized soldier suffering from PTSD and calls him a “yellow-bellied coward.” Yes, the film is over 50 years old, still the continued denial that service people can struggle with mental illness remains.

During World War II, General George Patton slapped a soldier who was suffering from “battle fatigue”, which we now refer to as PTSD. The military response to mental illness today has not improved significantly.

But why? Dr. Jeffrey A Liberman in his Psychiatric Times article “Solving the Mystery of Military Mental Health: A Call to Action, said, “…the idea of psychological weakness is antithetical to military culture with its ethos of strength and invulnerability. Thus, military leaders were disinclined to recognize and accept the possibility of psychic injury.”

Liberman goes on to say that because mental health issues like PTSD, which “is commonly associated with functional impairment, substance abuse, suicidal ideation, impulsivity and violence,” have no visible signs and can’t be proven by diagnostic tests the military can easily ignore them.

The sad thing is the military establishment has put its collective mind to a problem in the past and good things happened. Note that 80% of severely wounded combatants prior to the first World War I died. Today, 80% survive. So why can’t they put that same positive effort behind helping military personal suffering from mental illness?  

The United States Department of Veterans Affairs says an average of 20 veterans die by suicide daily. In the United Service Organizations article “Military Suicide Rates Are at an All-Time High; Here’s How We’re Trying to Help” Danielle DeSimone wrote, “Suicide rates among active-duty military members are currently at an all-time high, since record-keeping began after 9/11 and have been increasing over the past five years at an alarmingly steady pace…For military families and parents, whose active duty loved one already sacrifice so much to protect our freedom, this trend is extremely troubling.”

Sadly, it’s estimated that 60 to 70% of military personnel who experience mental health issues don’t seek help, fearing their careers will be in jeopardy if their commanding officers find out.

Isn’t it time we did better?

Your Forgotten Sons

Inspired by a true story

Anne Montgomery

Bud Richardville is inducted into the Army as the United States prepares for the invasion of Europe in 1943. A chance comment has Bud assigned to a Graves Registration Company, where his unit is tasked with locating, identifying, and burying the dead. Bud ships out, leaving behind his new wife, Lorraine, a mysterious woman who has stolen his heart but whose secretive nature and shadowy past leave many unanswered questions. When Bud and his men hit the beach at Normandy, they are immediately thrust into the horrors of what working in a graves unit entails. Bud is beaten down by the gruesome demands of his job and losses in his personal life, but then he meets Eva, an optimistic soul who despite the war can see a positive future. Will Eva’s love be enough to save him?

Release Date: June 6, 2024

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