Memorial Day: Why we celebrate

Back when I was a print reporter, my editor asked me to write a story on Memorial Day. “Go find out about all the events people can attend,” he said. “Parties, big sales, parades. Things like that.”

I frowned, which caught him off guard. “What?” He held out his hands palms up.

I had never refused an assignment before, still I couldn’t help myself. “Memorial Day isn’t about shopping and drinking beer. It’s about remembering.”

He looked at me for a moment. “Write whatever you want.”

So, I contacted the local Veterans of Foreign Wars post and interviewed a number of aging veterans, men who despite their advanced years, recalled vividly those who were left behind. 

“I was a foot soldier. Fifty-ninth field hospital. My brother was in the 7th Armored Division. He chased me and I chased him, but he was killed before I got to him.”

“The pilot of the helicopter was going to lower me down into the water and I leaned out and took a look. Here was these huge fishes going around eating pieces of bodies. Sharks. And you know they couldn’t declare that person dead because they didn’t know if it was one person or two. I thought about it ever since.”

“A buddy of mine…we went all the way through the war right to the end. Just outside of Cheb, Czechoslovakia he got captured and they stuck a pistol in his mouth and pulled the trigger. He was…22.”

I have over the years spent Memorial Day thinking about the veterans in my life who are no longer with us. My father who faced kamikazes and rode a destroyer escort into Tokyo Bay at the end of World War II. My dear friend Don Clarkson, a decorated hero of the Vietnam War who spent the rest of his life struggling with the demons he brought home. And now, I also remember Bud.

Sergeant Bud Richardville served in the 606th Graves Registration Service in the European Theatre during World War II. His job? Locate, identify, and bury the dead. Think about that.

With the help of a packet of letters now 80 years old, I tracked Bud through the landing on the beaches of Normandy, the frigid forests of the Battle of the Bulge, and General George Patton’s drive to free Czechoslovakia from the Nazis. All the while soldiers died by the hundreds of thousands on both sides of the conflict and Bud and his men were tasked with recovering whatever was left. Then they buried the remains in the graceful cemeteries they built, hollowed peaceful grounds today, spread across what were once miserable killing fields.

June 6, 2024 is the 80th anniversary of D-Day. My new historical fiction novel Your Forgotten Sons tells not only Bud’s story, but those of the men who labored alongside him. Soldiers who have rarely appeared in books or films, but who toiled to give the fallen the respect and dignity they deserved.

So, on this Memorial Day, I will remember my soft-spoken father, and my dear friend Don. But I will also remember Bud and those who served with him.

Your Forgotten Sons

Inspired by a true story

Anne Montgomery

Bud Richardville is inducted into the Army as the United States prepares for the invasion of Europe in 1943. A chance comment has Bud assigned to a Graves Registration Company, where his unit is tasked with locating, identifying, and burying the dead. Bud ships out, leaving behind his new wife, Lorraine, a mysterious woman who has stolen his heart but whose secretive nature and shadowy past leave many unanswered questions. When Bud and his men hit the beach at Normandy, they are immediately thrust into the horrors of what working in a graves unit entails. Bud is beaten down by the gruesome demands of his job and losses in his personal life, but then he meets Eva, an optimistic soul who despite the war can see a positive future. Will Eva’s love be enough to save him?

Release Date: June 6, 2024

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Mental health and the military: Isn’t it time we did better?

Sixty to 70% of military personnel do not seek mental health assistance when they need it, concerned perhaps that the knowledge will destroy their careers.

In my new novel Your Forgotten Sons, a work of historical fiction which is inspired by a true story, World War II soldiers in the Graves Registration Service are relentlessly bombarded with the horrors of war, as their job entails retrieving, identifying, and burying the dead, a breeding ground for psychological damage. No doubt, many came home with deep invisible wounds that no one acknowledged as real. And that attitude about mental illness continued until recently.

Today, with the help of many well-known individuals, the stigma has lifted, especially with athletes like Simon Biles and Michael Phelps, and artists like Lady Gaga and Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson having come forward with their own mental health issues.

Now mental health is an everyday conversation in America. Unless, of course, one is in the military. A scene in the 1970 movie Patton still resonates. Actor George C. Scott—who won an Academy Award for playing the title character—slaps a hospitalized soldier suffering from PTSD and calls him a “yellow-bellied coward.” Yes, the film is over 50 years old, still the continued denial that service people can struggle with mental illness remains.

During World War II, General George Patton slapped a soldier who was suffering from “battle fatigue”, which we now refer to as PTSD. The military response to mental illness today has not improved significantly.

But why? Dr. Jeffrey A Liberman in his Psychiatric Times article “Solving the Mystery of Military Mental Health: A Call to Action, said, “…the idea of psychological weakness is antithetical to military culture with its ethos of strength and invulnerability. Thus, military leaders were disinclined to recognize and accept the possibility of psychic injury.”

Liberman goes on to say that because mental health issues like PTSD, which “is commonly associated with functional impairment, substance abuse, suicidal ideation, impulsivity and violence,” have no visible signs and can’t be proven by diagnostic tests the military can easily ignore them.

The sad thing is the military establishment has put its collective mind to a problem in the past and good things happened. Note that 80% of severely wounded combatants prior to the first World War I died. Today, 80% survive. So why can’t they put that same positive effort behind helping military personal suffering from mental illness?  

The United States Department of Veterans Affairs says an average of 20 veterans die by suicide daily. In the United Service Organizations article “Military Suicide Rates Are at an All-Time High; Here’s How We’re Trying to Help” Danielle DeSimone wrote, “Suicide rates among active-duty military members are currently at an all-time high, since record-keeping began after 9/11 and have been increasing over the past five years at an alarmingly steady pace…For military families and parents, whose active duty loved one already sacrifice so much to protect our freedom, this trend is extremely troubling.”

Sadly, it’s estimated that 60 to 70% of military personnel who experience mental health issues don’t seek help, fearing their careers will be in jeopardy if their commanding officers find out.

Isn’t it time we did better?

Your Forgotten Sons

Inspired by a true story

Anne Montgomery

Bud Richardville is inducted into the Army as the United States prepares for the invasion of Europe in 1943. A chance comment has Bud assigned to a Graves Registration Company, where his unit is tasked with locating, identifying, and burying the dead. Bud ships out, leaving behind his new wife, Lorraine, a mysterious woman who has stolen his heart but whose secretive nature and shadowy past leave many unanswered questions. When Bud and his men hit the beach at Normandy, they are immediately thrust into the horrors of what working in a graves unit entails. Bud is beaten down by the gruesome demands of his job and losses in his personal life, but then he meets Eva, an optimistic soul who despite the war can see a positive future. Will Eva’s love be enough to save him?

Release Date: June 6, 2024

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Bookstores, libraries, and other booksellers can order copies directly from the Ingram Catalog.

Anne Montgomery’s novels can be found wherever books are sold.

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