Saving wild horses one at a time

I recently visited Georgia where I did a book talk at the Richland Rum Distillery, located in a verdant, tall-pines area a couple of hours south of Atlanta. There I met Karin Vonk who owns the distillery along with her husband Eric.

The mustangs that live on Karin’s ranch are wild, but if youre very lucky one might come close enough to touch.

Karin and I had been in email contact several years earlier when I was working on my novel Wild Horses on the Salt, a story which discusses, among other things, the plight of the wild horses here in Arizona. Like many places in the West, our wilderness areas are being eating up by development, putting the animals at risk.

You are probably wondering how a rum maker might have been a useful contact in regard to a book about horses. Well, when Karin is not making rum she’s saving mustangs. Following my book presentation—and, lucky me, a rum tasting—Karin invited me to her ranch, a sprawling 2,000 acre spread with rolling hills and lakes, streams and forests.

We parked near a line of oak trees by a fence, behind which multiple mustangs grazed. Black and brown, spotted and white, 26 in all, though many were not visible, since the animals have over 150 acres of their own upon which to roam.

The horses are wild. None have worn a bridle or saddle, and Karin confirmed they never would. Note that mustangs are by definition free-roaming horses that are descendants of those bought to the Americas by the Spanish conquistadors. Though horses were once indigenous to this continent, they died out around 10,000 years ago, possibly due to climate change and human predation.

I met Karin Vonk at her beautiful Richland Rum Distillery where I spoke about my new novel Your Forgotten Sons. Then she took me to see the horses.

At the turn of the 20th century, roughly two million wild horses roamed the West. Today, the Bureau of Land Management estimates the number at 73,520, a count that includes free-roaming burros. Despite the dramatic drop, the animals are running out of room, and the question is what do we do with them.

The BLM conducts roundups, often by helicopter, where some horses are sterilized and released, while others are offered up for adoption. But horses are expensive, as are the efforts involved in training a creature that has always been wild. Despite financial incentives from the BLM, only 6,220 wild horses and burros were adopted in 2023, leaving many thousands languishing in holding facilities across the West. That’s where Karin and others like her come in, many of whom scour the Internet for mustangs in need of a home.

As we stood inside the fence and gazed at the animals placidly grazing beneath a bank of bluish-gray clouds, she told me about one specific horse, a 25-year-old black-and-white paint, an animal that tugged at her. Eventually, she brought him to the ranch and only then did she notice the many pictures of him online. The paint was a long-time photographers’ favorite and in those pictures Karin noticed another animal, a black mare who was always by his side. So, again, Karin went to the Internet, hoping to find the mustang’s mate.

“She was very tentative when she came out,” Karin said when the mare arrived at the ranch. “I wasn’t sure what he would do, so I kept her on the other side of the fence. Then their noses touched and he started jumping and kicking.”

The mare perked up as well. While it was unknown how long they’d been apart, they clearly recognized one another. A short time later, they were reunited.

“See, over there, on the hill?” Karin pointed to the couple, who grazed alone near a thick stand of trees.

A white horse wandered over at that moment and Karin gave him a pat on the neck. I reached out and touched the mustang, as well. Then she nodded at the couple. “They won’t come to me yet,” she said, not seeming the least bit displeased. She explained that the horses are not pets. She tries not to give them names. An effort perhaps to keep them always wild.

Karin wants nothing from these animals except what she can give them. A little bit of open land to live out their lives in peace.

WILD HORSES ON THE SALT

A WOMAN FLEES AN ABUSIVE HUSBAND

AND FINDS HOPE IN THE WILDS OF THE ARIZONA DESERT.

Published by Liaison – A Next Chapter Imprint

Rebecca Quinn escapes her controlling husband and, with nowhere else to go, hops the red-eye to Arizona. There, Gaby Strand – her aunt’s college roommate – gives her shelter at the Salt River Inn, a 1930’s guesthouse located in the wildly beautiful Tonto National Forest.

Becca struggles with post-traumatic stress, but is enthralled by the splendor and fragility of the Sonoran Desert. The once aspiring artist meets Noah Tanner, a cattle rancher and beekeeper, Oscar Billingsley, a retired psychiatrist and avid birder, and a blacksmith named Walt. Thanks to her new friends and a small band of wild horses, Becca adjusts to life in the desert and rekindles her love of art.

Then, Becca’s husband tracks her down, forcing her to summon all her strength. But can she finally stop running away?

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If it sounds too good to be true….A cautionary tale for authors

“I’m George Watson, a film and talent agent based in Los Angeles. I represent producers dedicated to bringing exceptional literary works to the screen, working closely with both authors and producers to secure impactful film deals and connect outstanding storytellers with Hollywood’s unique opportunities. I recently had the pleasure of reading your book, and it left a profound impression on me. I truly believe your work holds outstanding potential for a film adaptation.”

There it was in my email, the subject line saying, Your Forgotten Sons – Book to Film Adaptation. I’m sure you can imagine the delirious thrills that ran through me. But I’m not a dope, so I did some digging, and after some researching George seemed like a real guy from a real company. So we emailed back and forth for a few days, me noting the perfect prose and punctuation with which he wrote.  “My project manager will be in touch with you today to outline the next steps and address any outstanding details.”

Then I got a call from Tim who explained that the investors group included Prime, Netflix, and Amazon—which seemed a bit odd, since you wouldn’t expect those guys to sit around, have drinks, and purchase options on books together—still I listened.

Tim was from First Look Studios. “Can I have the link?” I asked.

“Of course.”

He pointed out that I would need to create a trailer for my book, implying that the investors needed a three-minute video to learn about the book. My Spidey senses perked up at that point. Would one invest a shit-ton of money in a film without reading the book it’s based on?

Before ending the call, I asked Tim to email me the information we discussed, a document that magically appeared in my inbox in seconds, but sans the link I’d requested. So, I typed in First Look Studios and found that, yes, it was a film production company. Because I could find no website, I read the information on Wikipedia, and it was only when I got down to the bottom of the article that I found this: “In November 2010, First Look Studios filed for bankruptcy…”

I then went back and called the number that popped up on my Goggle search and left George a message. Later on, a man sent me a voicemail explaing that he was George Watson and that others like me had been in touch. “It looks like a scam, “ he said. “It’s certainly not me so good luck and be careful.”

Here’s the thing. Unlike most scams I’ve encountered, this one, at first glance, seemed legitimate, mostly because the emails were so well written and detailed. I have no doubt AI played a role. I’ll now admit that the first flush of excitement stopped me from doing a more thorough background check. And the scammers know this. Almost immediately, I began preparing that speech thanking the Academy for my Oscar for Best Adapted Screenplay.

I’m still unsure what they wanted from me. They only asked for a copy of the book and a trailer. I’m going to guess it would have had something to do with the cash they were waving around. They probably would have asked for money and/or my bank account information.

The point, of course, is that we have to be vigilant, especially with AI smoothing out all those rough scam edges. Just remember, if it seems too good to be true…It is!

Your Forgotten Sons

Inspired by a true story

Anne Montgomery

Bud Richardville is inducted into the Army as the United States prepares for the invasion of Europe in 1943. A chance comment has Bud assigned to a Graves Registration Company, where his unit is tasked with locating, identifying, and burying the dead. Bud ships out, leaving behind his new wife, Lorraine, a mysterious woman who has stolen his heart but whose secretive nature and shadowy past leave many unanswered questions. When Bud and his men hit the beach at Normandy, they are immediately thrust into the horrors of what working in a graves unit entails. Bud is beaten down by the gruesome demands of his job and losses in his personal life, but then he meets Eva, an optimistic soul who despite the war can see a positive future. Will Eva’s love be enough to save him?

Release Date: June 6, 2024

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A return to Georgia: Join us if you can

Forty-one years ago, I arrived in Columbus, Georgia. I’d been out of college for six years, and this was the first time I’d been offered a job in my field of choice. I wanted to be a sportscaster, but back then the doors to that world were mostly shut to women.

Still, I’d been given an opportunity at WRBL-TV. I was assigned the job of sports director and sports anchor on the Monday through Friday six and 11 o’clock newscasts, and I was both thrilled and terrified, because while I’d spent the previous five years officiating amateur sports—football, baseball, ice hockey, soccer, and basketball—in an effort to understand the games and be a competent sportscaster, I knew nothing about producing and anchoring a sports segment.

I will be forever indebted to the late Dan Lynn who accepted me at WRBL-TV back in 1983 and taught me to be a sportscaster.

I was rather stunned when I arrived in that small town that housed one of the largest infantry bases in the country. It was then Fort Benning. Today Fort Moore. Since I was a Jersey girl who after graduating from college in Ohio moved to Washington D.C., I had little knowledge of the South, and to say I didn’t completely fit in would be an understatement.

Two people saved me. One was my sports partner Dan Lynn who—despite being passed over for the top job for a woman with no broadcasting experience—did all he could to help me acclimate to the business. The other was Reg.

Regina Liparoto and I became friends while working at WRBL-TV in 1983. We’ve been buddies ever since. When she asked me to write a book about her Uncle Bud, I, of course, said yes.

Regina Liparato—a spritely blonde with a big smile and a bit of a Georgia drawl—was the newsroom assistant and we became friends about three seconds after we met. She helped ease me into the Southern culture I sometimes found baffling. The night she and several station employees took me out to dinner remains stuck in my mind.

A waitress looked at me and asked, “You want grits with that, honey?”

Since I didn’t know what grits were, I made what was to me a reasonable reply. “I’ve never had any.” I smiled. “Could you just bring me one?”

The waitress was incredulous. My dinner mates hysterical with laughter. I was just confused. Then Reg patted my hand and said, “You can have some of mine.”

Neither Reg nor I could have guessed that four decades later we’d embark on a project that would consume five years of our lives. She asked me to write a book about her Uncle Bud, a man who like millions of others had been drafted and sent to fight in World War II. But Bud’s story was different than most. Assigned to what was probably the most difficult job in the military, Sergeant Joseph “Bud” Richardville served in the Graves Registration Service where his job was to locate, identify, and bury the dead.

The novel Your Forgotten Sons is inspired by Bud’s life and dedicated to the men with whom he worked tirelessly to honor the fallen. That care is visible today in the 26 graceful cemeteries they left behind in 17 countries worldwide.

On this Veterans Day weekend, I have returned to Columbus, Georgia where Regina and I have reunited. We will talk about Bud and his men and ask others to remember them, as well. If you happen to be in the area, come and join us. Here’s where we’ll be:

Schedule

Saturday, November 9th, 2024

Tri-City Veterans Day Parade Columbus, Georgia

10:00 AM

Richland Rum Tasting Room 1 Richland, Georgia

2:00 PM

VFW Catula, Georgia

6:00 PM

Sunday, November 10, 2024

Ruth Ann’s Restaurant Historic Uptown Columbus (Reservations Required)

706-325-9111

1:00 PM

Monday, November 11, 2024

VFW Columbus Victory Drive Veterans Day Cookout

12:30 PM

Your Forgotten Sons

Inspired by a true story

Anne Montgomery

Bud Richardville is inducted into the Army as the United States prepares for the invasion of Europe in 1943. A chance comment has Bud assigned to a Graves Registration Company, where his unit is tasked with locating, identifying, and burying the dead. Bud ships out, leaving behind his new wife, Lorraine, a mysterious woman who has stolen his heart but whose secretive nature and shadowy past leave many unanswered questions. When Bud and his men hit the beach at Normandy, they are immediately thrust into the horrors of what working in a graves unit entails. Bud is beaten down by the gruesome demands of his job and losses in his personal life, but then he meets Eva, an optimistic soul who despite the war can see a positive future. Will Eva’s love be enough to save him?

Release Date: June 6, 2024

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Football: Too much of a good thing?

I can’t believe I’m about to say this, but I must. I, Anne Montgomery, am getting sick of football.

I spent almost 40 years as an amateur football official, so I never imagined I could get tired of the game.

I know what you’re thinking. Clearly, I must have hit my head since football was a big part of my world for such a long time. I routinely covered football as a sports reporter, and was even the beat reporter for the Arizona Cardinals when I worked in television in Phoenix. That means I covered their games and practices, and was expected to know everything that was happening with the team on a daily basis. On top of that, I officiated amateur football for about 40 years, 24 of which I spent as a high school referee and crew chief.

So what gives?

I am old enough to remember the kinder, gentler days of football, when one could expect games on a simple timetable that even a child could comprehend. High school football reined mostly on Friday nights, Saturday was college ball, and the NFL took charge on Sundays. Of course, pro ball changed a bit in 1970 when the first Monday Night Football game aired, but that didn’t seem too overwhelming at the time.

Today, however, there is almost no escaping football. The NFL bled into Thursdays in 2006, which in my opinion is barbaric. How is it even remotely fair to make teams play just four days after suiting up for a Sunday game? Feel free to laugh when the league says the health and well-being of its players are of utmost importance.

In olden times, there were two time slots for pro games, quaintly referred to as the early game and the late game. Now, we sometimes have an early-early game—a 9:30 AM EST matchup courtesy of NFL Europe—as well as a Sunday night contest.

And college football has expanded as well. Now, instead of ruling just on Saturdays, you can catch games on Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, and Friday. But don’t worry, the NCAA cares deeply about the student-athletes who represent State U. I’m sure all those kids are making it to their classes.

As a sports reporter, I covered football for years, but now my love for the game seems to be waning.

Perhaps you are now scratching your head and wondering why football has literally taken over every night of the week. And I bet you know the answer. (See what I did there?) Though no one is saying so, the idea that we are all free to gamble on the game has made more football equate to more money. Tons of it.

According to the American Gaming Association, it’s estimated that approximately $35 billion will be wagered on the NFL with legal sports books this year, 30% more than last season. The NCAA, meanwhile, is rather opaque in regard to how much legalized gambling on football brings into its confers annually, but I’d wager the sum is easily in the billions.

Note that 48% of sports gamblers are 18-to-34-year-olds, and according to the NCAA’s own 2023 study, 67% of 18-to-22-year-olds had engaged in sports betting in the previous year. But the ruling body in the college sports world says not to worry.  Last March the organization announced that, “The NCAA’s longstanding efforts regarding sports wagering, which aim to protect the well-being of student-athletes and the integrity of competition, continue to evolve alongside the (gambling) industry’s rapid growth.”

Well, now I feel better. Don’t you?

Humans love things that are rare. Which football used to be say in comparison to the pretty endless Major League Baseball season. The NFL had just 16 regular season games, before a 17th matchup was added in 2021. Still, the relatively short football season was something to look forward to. The anticipation—for you younger readers who are used to instant gratification, look it up—was delicious as we waited for that opening kickoff.

So, why am I getting tired of football? It’s like anything else we can do anytime we want. It becomes a case of too much of a good thing. After a while, the shine wears off. Simply put, football has lost its sparkle. But I haven’t given up on the game yet. I’m holding on. Here’s hoping my passion returns.

Your Forgotten Sons

Inspired by a true story

Anne Montgomery

Bud Richardville is inducted into the Army as the United States prepares for the invasion of Europe in 1943. A chance comment has Bud assigned to a Graves Registration Company, where his unit is tasked with locating, identifying, and burying the dead. Bud ships out, leaving behind his new wife, Lorraine, a mysterious woman who has stolen his heart but whose secretive nature and shadowy past leave many unanswered questions. When Bud and his men hit the beach at Normandy, they are immediately thrust into the horrors of what working in a graves unit entails. Bud is beaten down by the gruesome demands of his job and losses in his personal life, but then he meets Eva, an optimistic soul who despite the war can see a positive future. Will Eva’s love be enough to save him?

Release Date: June 6, 2024

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Lies: We can and should do better

Truth should matter, don’t you think? I mean, it’s fundamental that in order to make sound decisions that benefit ourselves and others, we should gather the facts, ruminate a bit, and come to a logical conclusion.

And today—Wow!—we have the world’s knowledge at our fingertips. Never in the history of man has so much information been available to so many. And yet, we seem to know less about the truth today than we ever have.

Why? The guardrails were smashed when anyone with a computer or phone could say anything at any time about anyone or anything, anonymously and without limits. Yes, I know that here in the U.S. we have free speech—and we could debate what that exactly means for a millennium or two—but let’s look at this like when we were kids.

Remember when your mom said, “Did you take that Snickers bar from the store?” And you pressed your lips together, and scrunched up your eyes, and considered which was worse, stealing or lying? Then you confessed and she made you apologize to the store owner and you had to put the candy back? There was probably some kind of punishment for your youthful transgression, but when it was over, well, at least you told the truth, right?

It’s pretty clear that the vast majority of us learned that lying was bad about the time we figured out how to color inside the lines. And yet today grown-ups of all stripes lie with abandon, then say something silly like, “Yes, I lied. But the underlying topic of my lie was important, so I thought I’d bring it up by um…lying.”

Does your head hurt? Mine does.

Now some of you may say that lying in certain situations is just fine. Like when mom is twirling around in a godawful dress clearly thrilled to death. When she says, “Don’t you love it?” You say…haltingly perhaps…“You look great, Mom.” And that’s just fine. No harm, no foul, in my opinion. Others might believe you need to bring the hammer of truth down on Mom and her purple-plaid dress, but not me, so we shall agree to disagree. However, when a lie can hurt others—human, animal, or the natural world itself—these fabrications should never get traction anywhere in our world.

So, what can we do to filter out the lies? Don’t share anything that you haven’t personally verified. Check the source of the information, check the bias of the source, cut and paste the information and do your own check, then pass it on to reputable fact-checking organizations. And please don’t tell me the fact-checkers are lying. I saw that recently and almost fell into despair.

And let’s not forget that words aren’t the only things that lie. Please put on your skeptical glasses and investigator’s hat when looking at those pictures of mermaids, the Loch Ness Monster, and other plants and animals that are clearly not real. Why add fakes to an already breathtaking world?

And here’s the really important thing. Get your facts from a bunch of different sources. Please, never, ever justify passing on a fact because you heard it on the one media outlet you’re glued to. It’s fine if you have a favorite news source, but be brave and check out a few others, especially those you don’t normally listen to.

In the end, the world will be a much better place if we put in the work and verify the information we’re passing around, because lies can hurt.

I know we can do better.

Now let’s all hold hands and sing Kumbaya.

Your Forgotten Sons

Inspired by a true story

Anne Montgomery

Bud Richardville is inducted into the Army as the United States prepares for the invasion of Europe in 1943. A chance comment has Bud assigned to a Graves Registration Company, where his unit is tasked with locating, identifying, and burying the dead. Bud ships out, leaving behind his new wife, Lorraine, a mysterious woman who has stolen his heart but whose secretive nature and shadowy past leave many unanswered questions. When Bud and his men hit the beach at Normandy, they are immediately thrust into the horrors of what working in a graves unit entails. Bud is beaten down by the gruesome demands of his job and losses in his personal life, but then he meets Eva, an optimistic soul who despite the war can see a positive future. Will Eva’s love be enough to save him?

Release Date: June 6, 2024

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Preparing for retirement: It’s not all about the money

I do a lot of podcasts on all kinds of subjects, and lately I’ve been invited to speak on a bunch of shows about retirement.

I know what you’re thinking. “We’ll of course you have, Anne! After all, you’re pushing 70.” Which makes me perfectly qualified to discuss all I didn’t understand before those Social Security checks began appearing.

First—and I’m guessing many of you already know this—prospective retirees must focus on their post-work financial lives long before the day they punch that last clock. Having enough money to live comfortably is incredibly important. However, a fat bank account and sound investments are not enough to make one happy. We retirees also need to consider how we’d like to spend our days.

Some of you are surely thinking, “I’ll play golf every morning!”, or “I’ll see my grandchildren all the time!”, or “I’ll travel the world!”

But here’s the thing. In regard to golf and other sports, though it pains me to say it, there will come a time when we are simply unable to participate in the sports we love. As far as the grandchildren are concerned, they have lives—school and sports and music lessons and camp and their peers. And as much as they love you, Grammy and Grampy, you are probably not anywhere near to the top of their to-do list. (Don’t hate me for that statement, just think about it is as dispassionately as possible.) As far as traveling is concerned, have you been out there lately? While I’ve traveled extensively and still do, all I can say is it’s exhausting, especially those long-haul flights with your knees scrunched up against the seatback in front of you. Navigating airports and time zones and hotels just isn’t as much fun as it was in my thirties.

Now, despite the relatively bleak retirement picture I’ve painted, let’s think about the things we can do. We can and should participate in sports and exercise regularly, for both the physical and social benefits they provide. We just have to adapt to our changing bodies and acquiesce when our bones suggest we try something less strenuous. Not easy, I know. I can’t ice skate or ski anymore, but I never considered pre-retirement that I would also be unable to officiate football and baseball. The good news is I can still swim and scuba dive. So branch out physically before you retire. Sure, go golfing if that’s your thing, but maybe try yoga too. Just find something that keeps you moving on a regular basis.

As for the grandkids, for the vast majority of us, that’s not an everyday thing, especially when the kids live far away. Travel, too, is mostly a special occasion, which means there’s still a lot of free time left in Retirement Land, so we must make a plan. For example, those who have a hobby in mind for those after-work years— like gardening, or cooking, or coaching, or painting, or playing the zither— should take a pre-retirement course. Check with your local college or community center and see what’s available. Doing this before retirement will let you know if you really do want to pursue the hobby. And if you don’t enjoy it, try something else. Just be open-minded and you might be surprised by what you fall in love with.

Now let’s talk about your social life. You need to get out in the world on a regular basis. Remember when you were working and you had to get up, get dressed, and deal with other people every day? That was good for you. You made social connections on the job. Approximately 76% of workers admit to having a close friend at work. But often, when we retire, relationships change dramatically. While we should do our best to stay in contact and get together when we can, remember that as we age friends tend to drift away, so our social circles shrink considerably, unless we make an effort to meet new people.

How do we do that? Find something you’re interested in and join a club where you’ll meet others with whom you share a passion. Also, don’t wait until your practically paralyzed by boredom to volunteer. We retirees are filled with knowledge and myriad skills that we should share with others. Sites like https://www.volunteermatch.org/ can help you find opportunities in your community. And don’t forget, no one says you can’t work part-time. So if you loved your job or always wanted to try a different one, go ahead. The idea is to get on a schedule. Even something as simple is deciding to read at a certain time every day will help.

Of course, I don’t mean your retirement world must be packed with never-ending commitments. Pick and choose what works for you. Stay in touch with family and friends, exercise, get out into your community on a regular basis, and I promise you’ll have a happier, more fulfilling retirement.

Your Forgotten Sons

Inspired by a true story

Anne Montgomery

Bud Richardville is inducted into the Army as the United States prepares for the invasion of Europe in 1943. A chance comment has Bud assigned to a Graves Registration Company, where his unit is tasked with locating, identifying, and burying the dead. Bud ships out, leaving behind his new wife, Lorraine, a mysterious woman who has stolen his heart but whose secretive nature and shadowy past leave many unanswered questions. When Bud and his men hit the beach at Normandy, they are immediately thrust into the horrors of what working in a graves unit entails. Bud is beaten down by the gruesome demands of his job and losses in his personal life, but then he meets Eva, an optimistic soul who despite the war can see a positive future. Will Eva’s love be enough to save him?

Release Date: June 6, 2024

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Anne Montgomery’s novels can be found wherever books are sold.

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A life lesson from a Major Leage Baseball player

One of my favorite interviews of all time took place one lovely afternoon in Arizona during Cactus League spring training. Some of you may know that the Phoenix area bursts with ballplayers and fans every year in a runup up to the regular Major League Baseball season. It’s a pretty big deal, so it was no surprise that I found myself holding a microphone while basking in the popcorn-and-hotdog-infused air, waiting for the man I was going to interview.

Pitcher Jim Abbott played ten years in Major League Baseball despite being born without a right hand.

But first, let me mention that about two months ago I tripped in a pothole and suffered a severely broken arm, one that had to be surgically repaired and fitted with some mean-looking pins to put everything back into place.

I can’t say it hasn’t been a struggle. I really thought that when the cast came off and pins were out I’d instantly be running around like when I was 12 and fractured my wrist ice skating. I don’t recall any long, drawn-out rehab. It was just no more cast, you’re free, bada-bing bada-boom.

But, no. Two weeks after I had the cast and the pins removed, my biggest success was being able to touch my thumb to my forefinger. That was the moment I realized it would be a long time before my arm would be fully functional.

If you’ve never lost the use of an appendage, let’s just say it can be rather daunting. The idea that I needed help pulling up my pants was my first hint that things were going to be difficult. Put peanut butter on my toast? Nope. Fold the laundry? Nope. Unscrew a jar? Not a chance. So, as you can imagine, I was both feeling sorry for myself and was immensely grateful that my sweetie pie was doing all the things I couldn’t.

Still, I’m an independent sort and quickly got tired of asking for help. So, recently, when I found myself staring at my shoes, I knew something had to change. And that’s the moment I thought of that interview back in 1989.

A severely broken and surgically repaired left arm prompted the memory of an interview I did 35 years ago.

The ballplayer in question was Jim Abbott, a pitcher who over a ten-year career played with several major league teams and was on the California Angels roster that year. I can still recall being charmed the first moment he smiled. As a woman sportscaster back in a time when we were almost as rare as unicorns, I didn’t always get a positive reaction from those I interviewed, so I was delighted when Abbott put me instantly at ease. Still, I shouldn’t have been surprised, because Abbott understood about being different. He was born without a right hand.

“As a kid I really wanted to fit in,” Abbott said on his website. “Sports became a way for me to gain acceptance. I think this fueled my desire to succeed. I truly believe that difficult times and disappointments can push us to find abilities and strengths we wouldn’t know existed without the experience of struggle.”

I considered Abbott’s words, flexed the fingers on my broken arm, and remembered watching video of him fielding. Opposing players often tried bunting against him, thinking to exploit any limitations his missing hand might cause, but he would almost magically flip his glove, grab the ball, and throw the runner out at first.

That day, in the bright Arizona sunshine, I asked Abbott how he managed day to day with just one hand. “How do you tie your shoes?” I asked.

He laughed and explained that his parents never babied him. “They would just look at me and say, ’Figure it out.’”

With that in mind, I wandered over to the Internet for a solution and here’s what I found:

One-handed shoe tying

1. Hold one shoelace down with your foot, and pull the other lace tight. Make sure the laces cross over when you do this.

2. Make a loop while still holding the lace under the other shoe.

3. Bring the loop behind and under the straight lace.

4. While holding the loop in place between your thumb and index finger, let the straight lace out from under the other shoe.

5. Use your other fingers to wrap the free lace completely around the loop.

6. Use your thumb to push the middle of the lace through this newly formed loop.

7. Holding one loop in place with your free foot, pull the other loop tight.

That’s it!

Easy peasy, right?

Um, no. I still haven’t mastered it, but with the words of Jim Abbott ringing in my head, how can I quit?

“Figure it out.”

Your Forgotten Sons

Inspired by a true story

Anne Montgomery

Bud Richardville is inducted into the Army as the United States prepares for the invasion of Europe in 1943. A chance comment has Bud assigned to a Graves Registration Company, where his unit is tasked with locating, identifying, and burying the dead. Bud ships out, leaving behind his new wife, Lorraine, a mysterious woman who has stolen his heart but whose secretive nature and shadowy past leave many unanswered questions. When Bud and his men hit the beach at Normandy, they are immediately thrust into the horrors of what working in a graves unit entails. Bud is beaten down by the gruesome demands of his job and losses in his personal life, but then he meets Eva, an optimistic soul who despite the war can see a positive future. Will Eva’s love be enough to save him?

Release Date: June 6, 2024

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Authors! Learn to love that microphone

Writers write. That is abundantly clear. But is that enough in today’s whirlwind of book marketing? It is not!

Authors especially are sometimes categorized as introverts. Some of the all-time greats— Edgar Allan Poe, George R.R. Martin, J.K. Rowling, C.S. Lewis, and Agatha Christie are among the many that have admitted to being shy. Which makes me wonder how they would fair in today’s marketplace if they were just starting out. My initial thought is they would fail—despite their brilliant prose—because today authors must speak if they want to get the word out.

Here’s where I’ll point out that authors aren’t the only ones afraid of public speaking. It turns out that getting up in front of a crowd tops the list of American phobias. Over 25% of those polled say they would rather face drowning, bugs and snakes, heights, and claustrophobia among other perceived scary situations than get sweaty palms at a podium.

So, what’s an author to do?

Get better at public speaking! Get better the way we improve at anything. Practice! Practice! Practice!

Note here that in another life I spent a great deal of time in front of a microphone when I was a TV sportscaster. And over a 20-year period in the classroom I taught communications skills. So let me pause for a moment to put on my teacher’s cap…Okay. Good!

Admittedly, I’m a bit of a ringer since I spent a lot of years holding a microphone when I was a sportscaster, still I believe anyone can master public speaking skills.

Now, the first thing to remember is that you have a whole lot to say. You would not write books if you weren’t bursting with ideas, which means there’s plenty of material to mine for interesting things to talk about. So banish the terror of standing speechless before a mic.

With that in mind, you bravely agree to speak to a local book club, so the first thing to do is ask about expectations and the venue.  Where and when will you be speaking? How long will you be speaking? Is there specific information the host would like you to touch on? Will you be taking questions? Will you be at a podium? (For those feeling skittish, a podium can be helpful in hiding shaky knees and gives one a spot to place notes, as well as something to hold on to. While a podium might not always be available, it never hurts to ask.)

And now it’s time to decide what you want to say.

“Oh, gosh!” you’re probably thinking. “How do I begin?”

Glad you asked! Simply, in a few sentences, introduce yourself. While the host will no doubt give you a brief introduction, have your own prepared. And make sure to say how happy you are to have been invited, even if it’s a complete lie because your gut is churning and all you want to do is run away. Calm your nerves by remembering the folks at the book club are not mean high school kids who are waiting for you to fail so they can laugh at you. They want you to be great. So tamp down the terror and smile!

As for the talking points, take into account what the host suggested. Did she ask you to discuss your new book? Marketing tips? Why a weekly blog is important? The everchanging world of publishing? Take that assignment seriously. Do some research, but you don’t have to be an expert. Just share your personal experiences.

If the host didn’t specify a particular subject, talk about what inspired you to write your book, describe the main characters, briefly outline the plot without giving away any spoilers, describe the setting and explain why it’s important to the story, and talk about the road to publication.

It’s important that your talk is conversationl in style and that you make eye-contact with those in the audience.

Once you’ve got all the ingredients assmbled, practice your speech in the mirror. And if you’re concerned that you might lose your train of thought, feel free to keep some notes, but never type out your speech and try to memorize it. Go for the conversational approach and remember to make frequent eye contact with the members of your audience. It’s also nice if you can inject some humor at your own expense. Don’t shy away from the times when things went horribly wrong. I’m betting your audience will be able to relate to your disappointments more than your successes.

Later, after you’ve collapsed in your car, taken a few calming breaths, and checked your watch to see if it’s even remotely close to cocktail time, think about your performance. Note what went well, what went wrong, and how you can improve the next time, because there must be a next time. Remember earlier when I said “Practice! Practice! Practice!”? Well, I meant it.

Because public speaking opportunities are not all that common for most of us, I have a secret weapon in regard to practicing. It’s called podcasts. Because I’m way too lazy to do my own, I offer myself as a guest on other people’s programs. I subscribe to a service for $15 a month. (I use podcastguests.com, but there are probably others.) Twice a week, I get a list of podcasters looking for guests. Here’s where I’ll recommend that you don’t limit yourselves to literary podcasts, instead be willing to talk about anything you feel comfortable speaking about, because almost always the podcaster will get down to your books and a link to your website, which even happened when I was a guest on a program about caring for stray cat populations. There are podcasts on thousands of subjects, so don’t be shy. And be happy to be appear on any podcast. I’ve been interviewed by a 14-year old and had a blast. I’ve been on podcasts that have aired hundreds of shows and others that have only done ten. Every one is an opportunity.

And here’s the thing. If you don’t like how you did on a podcast, you don’t have to share it. Like the book talk, ask yourself, “What could I have done better?” Then make adjustments and put yourself out there again.

I promise you’ll catch on. And then don’t be surprised if, eventually, you find yourself loving that microphone.

You can check out my podcast page here.

Your Forgotten Sons

Inspired by a true story

Anne Montgomery

Bud Richardville is inducted into the Army as the United States prepares for the invasion of Europe in 1943. A chance comment has Bud assigned to a Graves Registration Company, where his unit is tasked with locating, identifying, and burying the dead. Bud ships out, leaving behind his new wife, Lorraine, a mysterious woman who has stolen his heart but whose secretive nature and shadowy past leave many unanswered questions. When Bud and his men hit the beach at Normandy, they are immediately thrust into the horrors of what working in a graves unit entails. Bud is beaten down by the gruesome demands of his job and losses in his personal life, but then he meets Eva, an optimistic soul who despite the war can see a positive future. Will Eva’s love be enough to save him?

Release Date: June 6, 2024

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Life after sports: Athletes need to have a plan

Like a lot of sports fans, I’ve been thinking about Miami Dolphins quarterback Tua Tagovailoa who suffered his third NFL concussion in a recent game against the Buffalo Bills. Understandably, the question now is whether the 26-year-old should continue donning a helmet.

Dec 27, 2021; New Orleans, Louisiana, USA; Miami Dolphins quarterback Tua Tagovailoa (1) calls for the ball from center Michael Deiter (63) against New Orleans Saints during the first half at Caesars Superdome. Mandatory Credit: Stephen Lew-USA TODAY Sports

In recent years, the medical community has shined a light on the devastating effects concussions can have on a person’s quality of life. The links between Chronic Traumatic Encephalopathy (CTE), Amyotrophic Lateral Sclerosis (ALS), Alzheimer’s, and dementia are frightening clear. Note that in the case of CTE, the degenerative brain disease has been confirmed through autopsies in 345 out of 376 former NFL players.

Logic would dictate that Tua—who has guaranteed compensation to the tune of $167 million dollars, though exactly how much he would retain is not yet clear—should retire, especially considering that he has a wife and two young children. And yet, Tua says he wants to play again.

Dr. Myron Rolle, an American neurosurgeon and Rhodes Scholar who is currently doing a Pediatric Neurosurgery Fellowship at John’s Hopkins, shared the following on Instagram. “I would hate to see him fall down this pathway of wanting to play this sport, wanting to be tough for your teammates, wanting to be on the field, wanting to not disappoint people…I hope we can get to him…to speak life into him and protect him from himself. For him, it’s time to step away. It’s time to rest and recover and to put away any ideas of retuning to play.”

Note that Rolle understands Tua’s world more than you might expect. The former safety played football at Florida State, then spent three seasons in the NFL with the Tennessee Titans and the Pittsburg Steelers, before he retired and turned to medicine. I heard him speak in a CNN interview recently where he admitted that he also had a difficult time hanging up his cleats, even though he had another career waiting for him.

It was that last part that caught my attention. That Rolle had a plan for the years after football. Which made me wonder how many young athletes have the foresight to see beyond the game to a time when their skills and bodies decline and they are no longer competitive, but when they have many more years to live.

Dr. Myron Rolle, a former NFL player turned neurosurgeon, understands Tua Tagovailoa’s desire to stay in the game, but is hoping the quarterback will retire.

As a former high school teacher, I can’t count the number of times teenage boys insisted that their only goal was to play professional football, basketball, or baseball. I would then gently point out that those few who make it to the pros rarely play more than four years. “What do you want to do after that?” I’d say. Blank stares were all I got in return.

I looked into Rolle’s background to see what made him different. I smiled when I read that on top of participating in high school football, basketball, and track, he sang in a school theater production, played saxophone in the band, and was the sports editor for the student newspaper.

Why is this important? It shows that Rolle had interests outside of playing sports, something I always recommended to my students. Participating in extracurricular activities can help young people move toward careers they might enjoy, an especially important idea for young athletes, since the vast majority of them will never play a team sport after high school.

Now consider college athletes who often spend up to 40 hours a week practicing, working out, playing, and traveling. When that commitment ends—as it will for 98% of them—what happens next? Are schools encouraging them to branch out and consider life after sports?

I will now share two personal examples, both of which took place when I was teaching sports reporting at Arizona State’s Walter Cronkite School of Journalism. I’d expected to see some football players in my class, or at least some walking around the department, but I did not. My boss eventually told me that the coach forbade his players from taking any of our courses for fear they would fail a class and lose their eligibility. Similarly, one of my students explained that her lacrosse coach recommended she forgo my class for the same reason, but she wanted to be a sports reporter, so she took it anyway. I doubt ASU is any different from most universities that seem to value the athlete more than the student.

One wonders if the NFL, which teaches rookies about player agents, finances, education, drugs and steroids, alcohol and HIV prevention, might also prepare them for life after football. Somehow, I doubt it. But wouldn’t it be nice if they did?

So perhaps it’s left up to high school teachers—and lets not forget parents—to encourage young athletes to diversify their interests, so that when the end of their sports lives eventually comes, they will be prepared to meet a fulfilling future.

Your Forgotten Sons

Inspired by a true story

Anne Montgomery

Bud Richardville is inducted into the Army as the United States prepares for the invasion of Europe in 1943. A chance comment has Bud assigned to a Graves Registration Company, where his unit is tasked with locating, identifying, and burying the dead. Bud ships out, leaving behind his new wife, Lorraine, a mysterious woman who has stolen his heart but whose secretive nature and shadowy past leave many unanswered questions. When Bud and his men hit the beach at Normandy, they are immediately thrust into the horrors of what working in a graves unit entails. Bud is beaten down by the gruesome demands of his job and losses in his personal life, but then he meets Eva, an optimistic soul who despite the war can see a positive future. Will Eva’s love be enough to save him?

Release Date: June 6, 2024

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A PBS Tribute to Sergeant Joseph “Bud” Richardville

Five years ago, my dear friend Regina Liparoto and I began a journey, one dedicated to telling the story of her uncle, Sergeant Joseph “Bud” Richardville, a man who served in the Graves Registration Service during World War II. Bud’s job—no doubt one of the least appreciated and most harrowing in the military—required that he locate, identify, and bury the dead.

I learned Bud’s story through a packet of 75-year-old letters and family oral history, stories Regina collected throughout her life. The result was Your Forgotten Sons, a novel inspired by Bud and those with whom he served in the GRS that was released this past June 6th in honor of the 80th anniversary of D-Day.

Recently, I traveled to Indiana where I met with Regina and members of the Richardville family, descendants who gathered to remember the soldier they never knew, but one they wanted to welcome back home.

And here is where I’d like to thank the people at Vincennes PBS for being there as we honored Bud.  You can find that story here.

Your Forgotten Sons

Inspired by a true story

Anne Montgomery

Bud Richardville is inducted into the Army as the United States prepares for the invasion of Europe in 1943. A chance comment has Bud assigned to a Graves Registration Company, where his unit is tasked with locating, identifying, and burying the dead. Bud ships out, leaving behind his new wife, Lorraine, a mysterious woman who has stolen his heart but whose secretive nature and shadowy past leave many unanswered questions. When Bud and his men hit the beach at Normandy, they are immediately thrust into the horrors of what working in a graves unit entails. Bud is beaten down by the gruesome demands of his job and losses in his personal life, but then he meets Eva, an optimistic soul who despite the war can see a positive future. Will Eva’s love be enough to save him?

Release Date: June 6, 2024

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Bookstores, libraries, and other booksellers can order copies directly from the Ingram Catalog.

Anne Montgomery’s novels can be found wherever books are sold.

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